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| User: | dpfesh (3867464)  Resistance is futile
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| Name: | dpfesh | |||||
| Website: | My lil Homeslice | |||||
| Location: | Phoenixville, Pennsylvania, United States | |||||
| Birthdate: | 1977-12-17 | |||||
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| AOL IM: |  dpfesh (Add Buddy, Send Message) | |||||
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| Bio: | crap i hate these. Let's do the label thing, it's fun :D. Bi-Poly-Pagan-Fat grrl-Gamer-Geek-Stoner-Rocker-Slacker. How's that? Friends whom i may mention in my LJ ramblings: Baa - Baa has been my friend for about 9 years. We 'dated' for a few months back in the early days. There was a point where we were ready to kill each other and called it off. A few days later he was hurt badly in a drunken stumble / brawl and his mom called to let me know. I rushed over to the hospital, coz i still love the dumb bastard - and we knew that we'd be awesome friends from that day on. For the most part we have been. I still love him very much as a friend. He can be very thoughtful at times. And also very much like a toddler having a fit at others. ;) BarbJeamifer - ![[info]](http://p-stat.livejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif){kind=small} barb_the_seeker She is one of my longest-had friends. We met in senior? Junior? year in high school. She was a goth, mean-ass, tough-skinned biatch - who was actually pretty cold to me for quite some time. I have no clue why i kept pestering her & trying to be her friend. Finally we bonded during art class. Coz she just couldn't get away from me - and mebbe she found i wasn't that bad, really. ~chuckle~ and we became fully two of the silliest bitches ever. Supa-Silly-Cows. After HS and after about a year of college or so there was a bit of..sexay-love-explosion-drama-craziness. I think it kinda rocked both our worlds for quite sometime. We have since been able to resolve all the drama and are happily settled as Soul-Sista's. I love her to pieces and miss her very much (she's in OK and i'm in PA). Cicely - geeksdoitbetter This is my Grrlie, my girlfriend, 1/3rd of The Fam. Lij & I met her at a BiZone meeting in New Jersey and we all quickly became friends. She & i have been dating for about 3 or so years (no one really knows :P ) She can be tough, a bitch, sweet, thoughtful, smart, silly, bright & shiney, not-so bright & shiney. She is a pillar and/or staple of the Bi-Poly community and often wants to help the queer-lings that can't yet help themselves. We've had a rocky path at times and i have seen many beautiful changes - i look forward to more of her beauty continuing to shine through. I love how absolutely wonderful she can be. She's a member of the Afghan Angels and has amazing yarn skillz.Daddy K - (see K) fatherbingo - This is an old HS buddy who i re-found due to the wonders that is ElJay. Hopefully we'll hang out somes :)Foxes! - thefoxes eeEEEee! Foxes! Gosh, they've been my friends for quite some time too. Met crayfox through Po a long time ago. A wonderful Taurin foxie was later added to make -- The Foxes. They are cute, cuddly, sweet, smart, curious. They often fix my computers when the problem has gone past my tiney lil head. Lij & Taurinfoxie will sit and chatter about art-stuff while cray & i sit in a corner and fix PC's and/or giggle at them. (we're the Big Dumb Boys, ya see :P ) Gar - bitmonger This is Cicely & Lar's sweetie & a friend of mine. We chatter on line a lot about random things. He likes to show me IT / Security related geeky articles that we can share a chuckle over. One day i shall wrastle him and i shall win. ~neener~Grrlie - (see Cicely) ivymcallister - She's da bomb. Snarky, smart, sweet (u know, at times, i figure). I've met her once in RL and would like to increase that :D+james+ - He's my favorite James ever! We are often ready to battle on the DDR Dance floor. K - This is my new sweetie (as of 5/06-ish). I met him and his wife at a play party a few years ago & thought he was terribly cute & shy. I saw them a few other times (really i like them both just fine). a few months ago he popped up on my IM and we started flirting and chatting again. Happily they'z all at a spot in their worlds where a new sweetie (me!) could be added. He's a loverly man. He's my Daddy (in a D/s sm scene kinda way). I look forward to him being around for quite some time :) Kat - Kat we met through some mutal friends about 5 years ago. She became part of "da family" when she started dating Baa. ~shakes head~ that relationship lasted about 2 years longer than it ever should have, heh. She certainly has some *issues*, most the time i have compassion for her. Sometimes i want to strangle her. She's often lots of fun for me to have around. A great conversationalist, she knows a lot about history & travel (and purses and shoes) ;) Kitten - Daddy K's Wifeypoo. Very sexay lady and sweet. I enjoy her a lot. Kitties - thekittypride Lotus, Little, Nubs, Big Kitty, Missay, Jinx, Gypsy. These guys are my babies. I love them. I can't stand them. They bring me joy. They bring me headaches. I wouldn't trade them for the world. They all have their own stories which would get far too long here. :)Lar - luluisme She is Gar's sweetie and my buddy. They come over once a month to hang out with me :D She's got super long hair & is very smart & enjoys laughing & bein silly. libitina - This is my buddy Alia. We've hung out here & there. I do believe she's my favorite kinky librarian w/lovely long hair :)Lij - casfeshie Lijah is my hubby. We met about 10 years ago while i was dating my ex-James. Lost touch for a bit, then met up again while i was dating Baa. A while after Baa & i broke up, Lij was nekkid, both of us high on extasy, professing his love for me. A while after that i started to believe him ;) We have been inseparable ever since. In 2002 we were handfasted by Barb Jeamifer, with Grrlie & Willyford as ringbearers, and many of our other friends around us. We behave as common-law-married folks, no official paper yet exists, and i don't really want/need it to - less common law goes away in PA or somesuch. He had a vasectomy close to a year ago and he does an awesome job of helping raise our kitties :)MeW - My co-worker & friend. She also dates Daddy K. She's also part o'the Afghan Angels (and has a very bad (good?) yarn addiction). Ms S - Ex-co-werker. Neighbor C - The cool female neighbor chick. I hope to have her over for some crafting. Neighbor S - The cool male neighbor dude. He helps me & lij fix our house sometimes :D Po - erm..Lots of history here that i don't really want to get into. Let's leave it at..he used to be a fairly big part of my world - some of my still-friends came via him - shtuff went bad. No longer even civil friends. R - ex-cowerker. Sehr Jess - zoesmisery She's my longest had friend. We met back in middle school when i snagged her away from the even dorkier kids to come sit at our Cool But Still Dorks table :D She was probably my first, true, heartfelt Girlfriend. We skipped school once together, talked about boys, talked about the weenies in our school and how much cooler we were.. swam in her pool (Cherrybibcards!), bitched about school, pretty much grew up together from that point on. Her family is kinda my family & vice versa. I actually introduced her & her current man to each other as well! (see Wayze) Also important, we've supported each other in our fights against PCOS for many many years and my life would have been more difficult without a buddy like her to go through the struggles with. ~woojah~skyethebard - Without her, i'm not sure i'd actually know any MILF's. Yay for Skye. ~grynn~ She's an awesome person and i really enjoy her company :)Sous - Soooooous! rfj We met like.. 1.5 years ago? She had randomly emailed me after seeing my profile on www.care2.com and my love of The Last Unicorn. I near deleted the email as spam - 'cept for the title of The Last Unicorn. She was a recent transplant and on the hunt for some friends in the area. I'm generally game for new friends so The Fam met her and found a lovely sweet lil thang. She and I have done a lot of soul sharing and i treasure her as a friend. She's also very cute in a skirt w/the tall boots. Spot - This is the J-supervisor guy, often staring at my boobs and/or not answering my questions coherently. He's pretty much the only bane of my exisitance @ werk. wayze - Sehr Jess' man and rambler supreme :D He also fixes stuff at my house occasionally. Willyford - or Will. Dear lord. Red-headed, grumpy-assed, biggest dumbest boy of a bear! We, as bears, have some shit in common. I felt connected to him from day one and there's been lotsa craziness (mostly mine) since then. Today, all is well. We are friends, there is often light flirting / light cuddling and it's fine. We tried dating a while ago and it didn't work out. I will love him quietly from the corner and see if on his own he makes his world a better place perhaps allowing for dating in the future - but for now..evr'thang is finally ~fine~ where it is. No matter what my dreams say :P | |||||
| Memories:: | 12 entries | |||||
| Pictures: | over 100 public | |||||
| Interests: | 106: +james+, activism, barefeet, bdsm, bears, beastie boys, beavis and butthead, bi, big dumb boys, big women, bisexual, bisexuality, bisexuals, bitch & animal, bitches & hos, bizone, bob marley, bondage, books, brak, brawndo, buffets o'joy, butch girls, cats, chemical brothers, childfree, chocolate, choo-choo bear, comfortable chairs, compersion, cooking, cotton candy machines, creativity, crockpots, cute panties, dane cook, ddr, dominant women, eddie izzard, equality for all, erotica, floggers, freaks, gay porn, honesty, hot girlies, idiocracy, interracial, jimi hendrix, kevin smith, kinky things, kitties, leather, love, loyalty to ones friends, magick, marijuana, marijuana legalization, maryjane, medical marijuana, meeting new people, music, my digital cable, my hottiepopsness!!, nine inch nails, nirvana, non-parenting, nudity, organizing, paganism, pimp daddy jones, poly, polyamorous, polyamory, pornography, pulling hair, queerz, quentin taratino, reading, responsible sex, s/m, safe sex, same-sex marriage legislation, sarcasm, self honesty, sex, sex-positive, sex-positive community, six feet under, sleeping, south park, sparkly!, spirituality, sterilization, sweeties, switches, tarot, tattoos, tattoos and piercing, the dark crystal, the fam!!, transgendered, triad, video games, weapons, weed | |||||
| Schools: | Great Valley High School - Malvern, PA (1992 - 1996) | |||||
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| Mutual Friends: | 49: acardart, barb_the_seeker, bensong1, bitmonger, brids_owlwoman, cappyhead, casfesh, contraddictions, cuddlebunni3, devilndisgize, doublebassplaya, dpfesh, dreamingbear, eb_2point0, freeko, furina_1975, fuzzybutchkins, geeksdoitbetter, grendelgongon, hawkwind2000, iestynapmwg, ivymcallister, jux_t_position, kit_kallisti, lady_marmalade_, lavablu, leatherfish, leatherfishxxx, libitina, ljtourist, luluisme, machellebelle, marlboroman74, massagelover4u, morigaintabitha, nomadic_wolf, pachestercounty, rfj, shirleym, skeem, skyethebard, somndev, tactisle, thefoxes, tiger_wilson, wazye, yesthattom, zjman, zoesmisery | |||||
| Also Friend of: | 12: baerana, bewitching, bigjd, blueflamedfire, dynamic_reality, emboline, faeriewoutwings, flannelbutch, luvcherbear, rhaes, saffron_zephyr, sammxowammy | |||||
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